The first and foremost step is to know thyself. That is, to know who you really are in truth, and not what you imagine you are. With this knowledge you become the wisest man. With this awareness, you reach humility and receive grace from the Lord. However, if you don't obtain self-knowledge, but consider only your toil, know that you will always remain far from the path.
Elder Joseph the Hesychast
"Monastic Wisdom; Letters..."